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Twin Cities SPICE Guidelines

We subscribe to an active consent rule where only yes means yes.
No means no. Maybe also means no. No response also means no. Be safe, sane, and consensual. Negotiate. Use common sense.
A “yes” for one negotiation does not mean “yes” for the entire event, it is a “yes” for that one negotiated activity.
Remember to be prepared for someone to say no, maybe, or not respond (all are “no”). Just because someone is here for the event does not automatically mean that this person wants to play with, or even talk to you.
Touching – No touching of any part of the body of others without their expressed consent. This also includes items that may be attached to someone’s body (such as hair, clothes, collars etc.) or their possessions, including toys or any other objects.
Ask permission before handling or using someone else’s toys or equipment.

Respect people’s privacy. Outing people is is a despicable act.
Recording and phone use – Cameras, video recorders, audio recorders, or other recording devices of any kind are not allowed OUT and EXPOSED in any area of the event except private rooms. Keep your phone in your pocket or bag. We understand there are exceptions for emergencies, medical apps, or other common-sense reasons why you may need to use your phone. In those situations, keep your phone down and do not have it held in a way where the camera(s) are exposed to possibly take photos or video or cause others to think you might be taking photos or video. Bottom line, be respectful of others’ privacy.

Strictly prohibited – Prostitution, solicitation, agreement, or negotiation for any sexual activities for cash or any other consideration is strictly prohibited. Professional scene people and prostitutes shall not attend any SPICE event as paid escorts.
Drug Policy - SPICE prohibits the use and sale of illegal drugs at ALL events.
Body positive – Guests are free from derogatory comments about a person’s body, appearance, nudity, gender presentation and orientation.
Harassment – Only interact with people who seem to want to continue interacting with you. The “yes means yes rule” applies to social interactions as well.
Dangerous, offensive, threatening, abusive, coercive, illegal, or harassing behavior won’t be tolerated.